perjantai 30. syyskuuta 2016

A man just for love him – idleness and gender roles

I am for the moment making an article about We Are Resident and residency of Helen Sargeant in Tampere Takahuhti arthouse for Tampere art association magazine Täydellinen ympyrä. I will share the same text here after I have finished it.

We have made the text together with Helen and there was one thing that Helen said that start this thought of mine.

Helen tells: The work that I am interested in making visible is care work and domestic work. In Britain today it is women who still do the majority of care and domestic work. My work is political in that I am highlighting that this is still an issue, and prevents many women from reaching their potential in the labour market or that they find it difficult to be able to work outside the home. Care work mainly goes on inside the home where it is unseen. Ideally the work that parents do would be more equitable.”

I red this and I was thinking my previous text about My time, his time, our time. Our gender roles in our family seems very different. My partner is home-daddy and I am the one who works outside of the house. Neither of us likes to clean, but Laurent cooks and I do the laudry. We both are not at all work- or money -oriented. We have get used to be poor (in Finnish scale). I did my master of arts graduating work about idleness. I like the books of British writer Tom Hodgkinson as well as Gorz, Lafargue and Illich. Still it is more me, who wants to work and who is more ambitious.

I think in Finland there is no more that kind of expectations of gender roles and domestical work or care work, unleast not same much as in Britain it seems to be. Time to time people ask me when my partner is planning to start work, but for most of the people (unleast in our social bubble) being home–daddy don't wake up any questions.

Finnish writer, politician and feminist Anna Kontula wrote very beautifull text called ”Vapaan naisen rakkaus”, - Love of a free woman. I try to translate one paragraph of it:

Love is luxury of those, whose bread don't depend on chose of spose. Thanks to my ancestress's work of equality, I can take who I wan't, and there is no bigger freedom. I have my career, my room and my bank account, and I need no man for another thing than just for love him.”




*annakontula.fi/2016/09/vapaan-naisen-rakkaus/?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=socialnetwork