perjantai 23. syyskuuta 2016

My time, his time, our time


Date of the actual residency come closer and Nicola have all ready made some plans for us.

Children are in day care the week that is usually autumn holidays in Finland and our trip to UK will be holidays for them. As I am working now, Laurent is taking care of the children daily, the time I am at work and children are no more at day care. My working day continues usually until 6pm.Often I also work in week-ends.

There are so many things I would like to see in my residency. So many places I would like to visit, and I would like to seriously to do work of my own in the way I could concentrate on it. I do have some plans, that I could put in to practise with children, but I also have a lot of ideas that need time of my own.

People keep saying to me ”Couldn’t your companion look after your children, while you are doing your things.” They don’t catch that that’s what he is doing all of the time.

I would like that this residency would be fun for all the family members. It is not fun to travel another country just to be babysitter while I am looking around and creating things. Children are also looking forward time, when I am not working and they are not in day care to do something together. For them being together is much more interesting than all the museums or other amusements. And they are both a bit shy too to meet new people.

We should find a way that pleases everybody. Both of us adults should get time for our own projects, and we should do fun things all together. And at the same time manage to create some art. This will be our challenge now. And I think this is one main question on what the family residency is about.